Social-Emotional Learning & Wellness

Social-Emotional Learning & Life Skills

Our social-emotional curriculum is anchored in the research of positive psychology and focuses on five key signature strengths that we, as a community, highlight as essential life skills in promoting positive well-being in our students: Gratitude, Kindness, Curiosity, Perseverance and Empathy. Through weekly life-skills lessons in the 1-4 Kehillot, Advisory lessons in the 5-8 Kehillot, special workshops, and activities that focus on cultivating these strengths - we aspire to imbue our students with these essential characteristics.


Key Character Strengths

As part of our commitment to the well-being of our Schechter Bergen Kehillah, we have identified five Key Character Strengths as the cornerstone to our social-emotional framework: 

  • Gratitude
  • Perseverance
  • Kindness
  • Empathy
  • Curiosity

Through intentional instruction, activities, and Torah study weaved in throughout the year, students learn to successfully exhibit and incorporate these character strengths into their daily lives.

Each character strength is celebrated annually through a dedicated day of study - Yom Gratitude; Yom Curiosity; Yom Kindness & Empathy; Yom Perseverance. These days are opportunities to teach our students the meaning of these strengths and experience hands-on learning that illustrates the value of each strength.

 

"We want our students to see their social and emotional development as essential to their growth at Schechter. We hope that they feel empowered to live a life of gratitude, perseverance, kindness, empathy and curiosity."

Dr. Ilana Kustanowitz

School Psychologist

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Weekly Life-Skills Lessons

Students in the Lower School Kehillot participate in weekly life-skills lessons that focus on the cultivation of positive well-being. During these lessons, students are taught how to navigate social skills through finding the balance of being proactive, assertive, and prosocial. We deliberately teach skills as how to enhance their own personal well-being.  Students engage in conversation and hands-on activities that promote mental health such as meditation, mindfulness, role-playing, and communication skills.

Middle School Advisory

The Middle School Advisory program meets four times per week with one or two advisors, in a smaller classroom composition. Each advisory session has a specific goal where organizational skills, community-building, and meditative practices are incorporated. Our curriculum is based on the Responsive Classroom Advisory program where targeted skill development is highlighted each session. Advisory is also a time for Kehillah (community) building where students may participate in a Hesed activity, celebrate communal holidays, and play games.

School-Wide Programming

School-wide programming that further cultivates our school’s Five Key Character Strengths (Curiosity, Empathy, Gratitude, Kindness, and Perseverance) is scheduled throughout the year  - with a day dedicated to each attribute, allowing students to explore and digest its importance. On Yom Gratitude, students share Divrei Torah on the Jewish connection between prayer and gratitude, participate in events that , and make gratitude collages highlighting where they experience gratitude. On Yom Kindness, students reflect on the impact to themselves and to others, of being kind. These days also provide a moment to extend beyond our own Kehillah, engaging in a variety of Hesed activities, challenging ourselves to demonstrate kindness and compassion within our local community as well.

Responsive Classroom

Responsive Classroom is a framework for building a caring, safe, and cohesive community in which children grow and mature, emotionally, intellectually, and socially. Responsive Classroom believes that in order for students to deeply engage in their learning, they must feel safe and supported. From an academic standpoint, Responsive Classroom helps us to create opportunities for academic choice and differentiation while also teaching children crucial skills such as how to take turns, listen respectfully to each other, and work effectively with a partner or in a collaborative group. Responsive Classroom allows each child to feel “seen.”

The Solomon Schechter Day School of Bergen County admits students of any race, color, national and ethnic origin to all the rights, privileges, programs, and activities generally accorded or made available to students at the school. Solomon Schechter does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, national and ethnic origin in administration of our educational policies, admissions policies, scholarship and loan programs, and athletic and other school-administered programs.

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